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Ms Ames

I have always suffered with lack of confidence and self esteem. I have never been happy with the way I look or how my body is, I’ve always wanted to be someone else and had major body envy of other women. 

Due to trauma in my childhood I’ve sadly suffered with mental health problems and self harm from my early teenage years up to my mid twenties. This took a massive toll and impact on my already low confidence.

With many failed and toxic relationships, I was left feeling like I wasn’t worthy of love and would never have my happy ever after. I believed I was cursed, but that quickly changed 5 years ago. I fell in love with an incredible woman. She helped me to see the positives in myself, personality and body.

Now nearly 5 years on I feel loved, empowered and accepted for myself for the first time in my life. I’ve started to love myself and although I still struggle with my confidence at times I can look in the mirror and be happy with who I am.

I have always wanted to do a boudoir photoshoot, but always talked myself out of it. When my wife surprised me at Christmas 2024, I knew that I couldn’t chicken out another time. It was now or never. Although incredibly nervous, Karen was amazing from the initial conversation right through to ordering my pictures. 

I was very unsure of doing my shoot in lingerie and in my mind wanted to stay clothed. As the time got closer and closer I soon changed my mind and wanted to have some slightly saucy pictures including with my beautiful wife.

Karen was so laid back and easy going, as soon as I walked in the door, my feet trembling in my boots but my heart screamed at the excitement. Having my hair and makeup done, I felt like I was at a friend’s getting ready for a night out, chatting and laughing with Mrs A and Karen.

I changed into a beautiful dress that I’d bought previously for a wedding and Karen made me feel completely at ease. The compliments I got about the way I looked, the way I posed and felt, made my confidence soar. 

After a while I changed into my lingerie I’d bought and although I felt very nervous, self conscious and shy, Karen made me feel incredible and I felt another side of myself that I hadn’t felt before. I felt sexy, beautiful and very confident. Who is this new woman? 

I can honestly say I loved every second and was sad at how quick time passed. I honestly believe I couldn’t have done it without how relaxed, calm and reassuring Karen was. I kicked myself how at ease I felt and why I never managed to do this before!

This was certainly the boost I needed and even now I still feel a new found sense of confidence and beauty. When looking through and choosing the photos we liked, I had tears streaming down my face. Pure happiness. Seeing myself through someone else’s eyes was just a feeling I can’t explain.

My wife and I can’t wait to have another boudoir experience in a couple of years time together.

Thank you Karen from the bottom of my heart, for not only the whole process start to finish, for being an incredible and down to earth woman and putting me at ease and making me feel what I have today.